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Become a better conversationalist. This is a most important part of what it is you are.

You need to look your best. Have your grooming up to your best standard, while still living what is to you, a simple peaceful life.

Take a lesson from Einstein who felt that from life only that which is necessary according to one's wisdom and needs should be taken.

Your choice of colors and clothing style should reflect the best of your personality. The energy of your subconscious expresses as your real self, especially when you are at your confident best. This is how people should experience you.
   This is how you should always see yourself. Poise, friendliness, how you express yourself in words together with voice inflection and eye response, is very important. A simple peaceful lifestyle is appreciated by all. This should reflect the best in you. In all you do, enrich the lives others live.

If you isolate the main idea in a conversation, you are well on your way to becoming a better conversationalist. Golf is one example. You don't golf, yet these people you are with do. The main idea here is not just golf, even though the mechanics of the game may be discussed. The main idea is the recreation aspect or what it is that golf does for the person. This is why they are excited about it. It is the same with any other recreational opportunity that would provide personal benefit. You are sure to have something to say about a couple of them.

Develop tact and wisdom with your words. Do not just short-circuit the conversation and begin talking about basketball. Be involved first. Ask questions that will keep others involved. An example of a question to lead in with would be "John, why did you select golf instead of baseball or hockey as recreation?"

If you recognize the main thrust of a conversation you will seldom be at a loss for words.

Be careful to keep within the law of balance. Words, like water, can either quench a thirsty soul or drown one.

In a personal conversation between two or a few people, you will lose one's interest if you make them listen to your talking for longer than a minute without them contributing. After three minutes you have all but entirely lostexpanding arrows: website logo them. Their mind has moved to other attentions.

Light conversation is best to engage in when you are getting to know someone. Change the subject often. Share some light experiences that you have had. Let them want to know more about you.

Thinking before speaking will keep you out of a heap of trouble.

Answer E4-1 above, copyright www.asksuby.com

Relative Quote:

"To stay ahead, you must have your next idea waiting in the wings." ...Rosabeth Moss Kanter, educator
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