You adopt mental moods and feelings by agreeing with them. Be watchful, ever alert to what it is that you allow your mind to agree with. You have in the past agreed with attitudes that have brought you to your present state in life. Your subconscious mind, being a particular 'footprint', a particular field of energy within the universal energy which is the universe, does not know the difference between something that we call 'real' and something imagined.

At first it seems like you are kind of lying to yourself, sort of trying to trick yourself when you imagine the state of how you want your life to be. But that is only because this is different to you. It is because you are still learning to understand these laws of universe and mind. It is so different than what you have been used to in order to get ahead in life.

You have been using the mass mind, received by you from what you have both observed from others, and from what has been your reaction to the various situations and circumstances of your life. How you have reacted to these previous things continues to play a part in your present life. What else could you do? You knew no better ways of handling these things. Entrenched ways should now be monitored through each day, with an eye towards areas requiring change.

You just did not know that you could create your future with your mind. You did not know that you go where your mind goes, so you did the best you knew. You concentrated on being good at reacting to circumstances. You heretofore were a good maintainer, trying to maintain your life and those of your loved ones. You contended with difficulties that arose, and acted to overcome them as best you knew how to.

A Hawaiian therapist by the name of Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len (we call him Dr. Len), emptied a ward of criminally insane individuals without seeing any of them face to face. The place was so bad, so dangerous, that staff seldom stayed more than a few months. When staff members walked down a hallway together, they would have their back to a wall keeping a careful eye on these imprisoned insane people.
    He healed them all, over the months that he worked from a small office in the hospital, looking only at their files. They were all released. Eventually they closed the ward as it was no longer needed.
    He healed them all by loving them. He loved them by looking at their file to get a feeling for them, for the horrible things these criminal crazies did.
    He had deep concern for them, and then healing what was in him (yes him, meaning this Hawaiian therapist, Dr Len) that had caused this patient to be as the patient was.
    Dr. Len understood that we are all in the same energy in this universe, and that is how we are all connected.
    How did he know what was in him that caused this? He didn't. He knew something had, so in his time with each of the patients' files, he would say, while alone there in the office "I'm sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you. God bless you." That's it! That's all he did! Many times, over many days, weeks and months he would say this for each of the patients.
    His story is in the book.Zero Limits.

The power of one good thought is ten thousand times more powerful than any bad thought. He knew the power of the subconscious mind, and how he could bring into existence a result out of the universal sea of mind, the sea of frequencies. It worked for him. It will work for you. 
    So don't put negative thinking anymore into your mind. And change those self-limiting thoughts to those of your best and highest dreams. And now you know how to deal with the things you see in others that you do not like.
    "Seeing into Nothingness; this is the true seeing, the eternal seeing." ...Shen-Hui, 8th century Philosopher.
    "He who knows that he is Spirit, becomes Spirit, becomes everything; neither godsnor men can prevent him." ...Brihadaranyaka Upanishad, seventh century BCE (Before the Common Era, or B.C. {Before Christ}), the time before the Infinite came in the body of Emmanuel to help mankind.

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"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." ...Leonardo da Vinci, 1452-1519, Italian Painter and Sculptor